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Stuff Successful People Like: “Rich Like Them” by Ryan D’Agostino

Pursuing success, for some, does not particularly require pursuing wealth.  For those that do desire to acquire wealth (such as myself), it is always good practice to research the profiles of people who became wealthy and understand their lifestyle practice.

 Ryan D’Agostino’s book “Rich Like Them” is a fascinating read on the lives and lessons of the rich for two distinct reasons.  For starters, the former senior editor of Money data-gathering method in the book is nothing short of amusing and ballsy- literally going door-to-door unsolicited amongst America’s priciest zip codes to interview wealthy people.  The other reason lies in the insightful responses and inspiring stories of the willing subjects (many of which were self-made millionaires), and if we were to diligent apply the principles and advice given in the book, we would all be closer to our dreams of financial abundance.

 

A highly-recommended entertaining and informative read.

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Achievers: Meet Kithe Brewster, Stylist & Fashion Editor

“God gives that insight and desire to get to a better place and not be complacent and live a life of ‘going to work everyday.’   That was never my course….it just never would never be me.  I knew that as a child, I must do the things in my heart and my dreams.” — Kithe Brewster

The picture above features one of the most recognizable faces on Earth.  She has her head comfortably resting on a man who has fashioned the mega-watt star- and many like her- such as Gwyneth Paltrow, Halle Berry, Iman, Celine Dion, Julianne Moore, Usher, Outkast, Eva Mendes, Drew Barrymore, and Heidi Klum.

 Stylist and fashion editor Kithe Brewster’s career is as prominent as they come.  He has done editorials for magazines such as Vanity Fair and has styled red-carpet affairs for Hollywood’s elite- and the occasional chart-topping chanteuse.  During his reign he’s helped a few achieve “fashion icon” status along the way; Camilla Morton of British Vogue famously wrote, “Kithe Brewster is to the best dressed list, what Henry Ford was to the automobile.”

With a versatile resume too extensive to include in an already robust interview, one would expect a trembling experience if one would ever meet him.  One would be surprised that he is exceptionally warm…truly an anomaly in the fashion industry.  I had the privilege to meet Kithe and discuss his incredible story, his highly publicized weight-loss journey, and his mission to connect with people’s hearts and aspirations through his career.

MisterLevius.com: When did it all start?  When did your passion for fashion begin?

Kithe Brewster: I was obsessed with vintage clothing; as a little kid I liked going “thrifting” and finding old things. I’d buy stuff for a dollar and I was changing it and cutting it all off.  Mom would be shopping at a department store or mall and you can’t really go chop up the clothes.  But when you go to vintage stores and you buy something for $2 you can whack off the sleeves, so I was doing kooky, deconstructing things as a kid.

ML: You had other interests as a child before jumping into your fashion career, correct?

KB: I had a career as a child actor- and dancer…I studied under Katherine Dunham directly in East St. Louis.  I moved to New York when I was 16 to pursue my career as an actor, dancer, singer, “Broadway”…  I auditioned a lot but I also had a part-time job working in my uncle’s fashion showroom.  After a year I decided I wanted to be in the fashion industry- specifically a fashion editor.  I had met all of the top ones who worked at Vogue, [Harper’s] Bazaar and all because they frequented my uncle’s showroom.  I’d put clothes together for them in the showrooms- I’d be like “Oh, these shoes would look great with this” and then I’d see it come out in Vogue or [Harper’s] Bazaar.  They would listen and place exactly how I recommended.

ML: How old were you at the time?

KB: I was 17.

(famous Annie Leibovitz photograph for Vanity Fair with iconic black supermodels)

ML: What was your initial reaction from your family about your direction to styling?

KB: My entire family was opposed to it.  My father and uncle cut me off when I moved to Paris, but I learned everything I needed to know.

ML: That had to have been hard.  When did you move to Paris?

KB: I moved to Paris at 19 with $500 in my pocket.  I’d stayed with a girl model friend I knew who just got a model permit to live in Paris.  She was not supposed to have guests but she said I can stay for a week- but would have to find my own place.  I didn’t toot French, I had very little money, I didn’t have an agent.  I didn’t have anything set-up because I had dropped out of school and quit my uncle’s company, so he wouldn’t help me…so I had to do it all on my own.

It wasn’t easy getting an agent since I didn’t have published work, only tests, but I finally found an incredible agent who fast-tracked me to success.  Also, the agent’s husband was an entertainment lawyer with many top fashion designers as his clients, so the couple basically introduced me to society.  I was able to connect and meet with powerful people, which was a great way to move upward.  I got the opportunities through the social connections I’d made and I had learned that that is a really great way to get around any city.

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ADVENTURES! My (Very) First Fashion Editorial

                         Images by Travis Levius.  All Rights Reserved.

I’ve learned firsthand this Spring that a challenge is the best way to grow- and equip one for more gratifying opportunities.  When I was approached by the Fashion Editor of Obvious Magazine, a respected online fashion/lifestyle publication, I was at once honored…and quietly intimidated.  He deemed my vision of the runway and Fashion Week coverage in London and NY good enough for an 8-page spread in the magazine.  I’ve never done a fashion shoot before.  Not even a “test.”  It wasn’t until a few weeks later when I found out on the-model-to-shoot’s Facebook page that it would also be the cover of the magazine.  Most people may not know that you can be fantastic at one photographic subject- but flounder at another.  I’ve never even had an opportunity to fail in a fashion shoot, let alone shoot a published one!  But I took on the challenge- as I’ve taken on every opportunity that seemed larger than me- and now I may be embarking on a photographic path that might lead me to the success I’ve dreamed of.

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NEW YORK Fashion Week F/W ’11- Show No. 5: Elie Tahari!

Images by Travis Levius.  All Rights Reserved.

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Achievers: Meet Amy Flurry & Nikki Salk, Creators of “Paper Cut Project”

Images by Caroline Petters, Mali Azima, and the Paper Cut Creators

Never compromise.  The things that we turned down, I think others would have jumped at because they were truly awesome opportunities, but it required some type of compromise on what it is that we’re wanting.  I think when you start compromising it’s not your dream anymore- it’s someone else’s vision. –Nikki Salk

Any emerging entrepreneur will admit the difficulty of saying “no” to offered opportunities- more difficult for others positioned in a minute niche.  Visionaries like Paper Cut Project founders Amy Flurry and Nikki Salk prove that staying true (and therefore holding out at times) can result in larger ventures without the back-bending.

The Georgia-based duo, both known for successful careers unrelated to paper art, have enjoyed a meteoric rise in the high fashion/luxury circle.  These “paper couturiers” build intricate creations, usually wearable on the face or sur la têtê, inspired by the innovation of fashion and the malleability of paper.  What was borne from a simple idea over casual conversation less than two years ago has brought demand from luxury staples around the globe- from exclusive Cartier and Hermes commissions to an upcoming spread in Italian Vogue.

Read the inspiring interview I had with lovely, humble ladies below and witness the powerful cycle of idea-making…to action…to breakthrough.

ML: Your first big break with Paper Cut involved fashion house juggernaut Hermes last year- how did the opportunity come about?

Amy Flurry: Hermes was specifically looking for “paper cut” when they found us, and they found us on a blog.  Yeah, very fortuitous (giggles).  The Hermes representative said she was looking in all of France to try and find paper cut artists, and nothing was really her vision of what she wanted.  When she saw our work, it did.  She saw the masks that we did for Jeffrey, and she really latched on to this idea.  The Paper Cut Project headpieces are now being worn by models and greeters at the Hermes stores that are opening in Asia, Munich-

ML: So this is already happening?

AF: It’s already happening, as soon as they got them they were sending stuff out! When I met them over in Paris we learned they in fact already opened three stores in China, one in Munich and one in Antwerp, so they had been travelling and they were holding up well.

ML: Why do you suppose your work stands out amongst other paper/fashion artists?

Nikki Salk: We want them to always exist.  Rather than being a store display that dies after a month when it’s taken down, we want what we created to always be something, and they would always exist…

AF: On their own!

NS: Exactly.

AF: They’re not just quickly pulled together for effect.  A recent Nylon Magazine issue called in a piece and it was for a beauty spread, and what we thought Continue reading

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NEW YORK Fashion Week F/W ’11- Show No. 3: Tibi!

                                     Images by Travis Levius.  All Rights Reserved.

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NY Fashion Week F/W ’11 Show No. 1: Pamella Roland

                                     Images by Travis Levius.  All Rights Reserved.

This was the first show I photographed after coming IMMEDIATELY from the airport (I carried my luggage from the London trip with me throughout the time at Lincoln Center!)  It felt great to be back in my element…in the photo pit.

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The Path: The Ridiculous Myth of Being “Self-Made”

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It’s commonplace for societies to accept vocabulary that seem stat quo; hearing the term “self-made millionaire” or “self-made entrepreneur” for most of my life, then, caused no adverse or dynamic reactions.   It wasn’t until I heard it mentioned recently, being on this journey of mines, that it seriously rubbed me the wrong way, especially as I’m on the same path that some may identify as a “self-made success story.”

Whatever you do- please- do NOT call me, or anyone else, “self-made.”

Being “self-made,” at least what it sounds like to me, means that your success and riches and big breaks came from you and only you- no help from anyone else.  Sure, you may have devised the genius idea that’s now in demand by the millions, or became a catalyst to an impactful movement around the globe, but didn’t you have a team beside you to make these things possible?  On a fundamental level, didn’t people encourage you at the beginning stages, helping you with resources and contacts while you were still building, offering advice when asked?  Not even the headstrong Trump relied only on his own strength and diligence to reach the stratospheric heights of wealth and prestige he enjoys today.   

Who is that unfortunate person to advance on his journey, make it to his destination, and not be blessed and transformed by incredible souls along the way? 

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ADVENTURES! Where IS Mister Levius? Five Unbelievable Months in Two Posts (Part 2)

Part 2: New York Fashion Week’s on the horizon- but stranded in London…did I make it against the odds?

I had only a week’s time to try and get everything together, and while the numerous NY Fashion Week invites brought me close, the perpetual money situation brought me so far.  I began asking friends and family for help but no one was able to give in time.  NYFW would start on a Thursday, and so by Friday I decided to do something absolutely crazy- travel to London’s Heathrow airport with $25 in my bank account and try to “make it happen.”

What was the outcome?  It surely took a lot of “bloodshed” to get to glory.  I approached a couple of airlines to try and fly that day or the next day with a round trip ticket, and they’d all give me a price that was non-negotiable.  Thankfully I never had to disclose how much I could give based on my bank account…for I surely would’ve been laughed at.

I had no access to Internet but for 20 minutes because of lack of funds (Wi-Fi at Heathrow cost a fortune).  The phone booths ate up my money when I tried to call to New York to let family know what was going on.  It was just one link of unfortunate lack after another…and I ended up staying over at night in an airport with no booked ticket and no money, trying to make it happen.

Make that 2 nights.  I spent a total of two and a half days sitting (and laying) on uncomfortable seats, with only 1 Nutri-Grain bar, some cereal crumbs, some cookies, and one to-go pasta dish to eat during that entire time.  And if you think I was not doubting or wavering I thought whether this was worth it or not, you’d be dead wrong.  This seemed so stupid!  There were so many times where I had just wanted to give in and just go back into London, at least resting on the fact that I’d be right there for London Fashion Week.  Yet again, something in me, I cannot develop into words, would “tug” at me and just wouldn’t let me give up.  Something was making me stay, and as “over it” as I was, I gave in.  It Continue reading

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ADVENTURES! Where IS Mister Levius? Five Unbelievable Months in Two Posts (Part 1)

 

Images by Travis Levius.  All Rights Reserved.

(Are you ready for this?)

Very few of you know what’s happened to me in the last few months…many more only know bits and pieces.  And you won’t find any info about my recent situations on my website…until now.

So what DID happen after shooting my first Fashion Weeks?

After a successful landing and experience shooting London Fashion Week in September- I unexpectedly became stuck.  A diminished budget and a standby flight surprise changed my whole itinerary for what was meant to be 10 days… into five months.

Scared, overwhelmed, but not hopeless, I sought out help from people I knew when I visited London 2 years ago while studying abroad.  There were many “close calls” as far as transitioning, but I never went one day homeless.

When money would get dangerously low, I’d get a donation (or paid work!) at the right time.  Ever heard of the idea of “an ‘on-time’ God”?  Well, I surely understood it in a whole new light.

Besides the super-stressful money and accommodation issues, I began establishing myself in the city I fell in love with three years ago- the networking, the making of amazing new friends, the photo opps, etc.  I was having the time of my life and didn’t need a lot of money to do so.  I’ve grown to love London even more and want to continue building my brand there.

All I had in those five months were 10 day’s worth of clothing and luggage (2 bags)- it showed me how little you really need to live off of to be content.

During the first few months, I really set out to try and do all I can to get back to New York by mid-December…and finally get some stability back in my life.  But as of December 2nd, something was “tugging” inside of me to stay.  A little afraid, I searched for answers by quieting my mind- should I stay or should I go?  I trusted what my intuition said and decided to stay- and freakishly had a lot of peace.

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